"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Im a dj, but i need some help with this one?????

Boxer45

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
Age
42
Ok i need some help from some fellow dj's, i went out on a first date like 3 days ago with this fine ass latina, it went really great, but no kiss, this is one of the first dates i never had the kiss on. But i didnt push it so we just had a nice hug at the end. But we really only spent like 2 hours together so i really didnt have too much time to work more game. But the date went great we seemed to hit it off nicely, so i havent talked to her or called her since, except a txt msg saying that i had a nice time. What do yall think my next move should be, she said she wanted to hang out saturday, so im kinda just waiting my time to call her up. Any advice? I really need this one bad!!!!!!!

Ryan
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Don_Joffe

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2004
Messages
338
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Cape Town
Your a DJ but you need help? I can see you are a DJ by this being your 1st post.
 

Boxer45

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
Age
42
Naw its not like that, i dont need help, i was just wanting some other opions of advice on this one.
 

alakazam

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2004
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
I don't see a real serious problem...

If you are a DJ as you say, you should know what to do now....
 

Boxer45

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
Age
42
ya im gonna hit her up, i just dont know if it was bad that i didnt get to kiss her on the first date or not??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Freeman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2005
Messages
316
Reaction score
2
my view

Not getting a kiss doesn't mean that you done something wrong. I didn't get a kiss on the first date with my ex but we hit it off pretty well after. So I would say that you should make plans with her again. Let us know how it works out!
 
Top