"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im a dj, but i need some help with this one?????

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Ok i need some help from some fellow dj's, i went out on a first date like 3 days ago with this fine ass latina, it went really great, but no kiss, this is one of the first dates i never had the kiss on. But i didnt push it so we just had a nice hug at the end. But we really only spent like 2 hours together so i really didnt have too much time to work more game. But the date went great we seemed to hit it off nicely, so i havent talked to her or called her since, except a txt msg saying that i had a nice time. What do yall think my next move should be, she said she wanted to hang out saturday, so im kinda just waiting my time to call her up. Any advice? I really need this one bad!!!!!!!

Ryan
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your a DJ but you need help? I can see you are a DJ by this being your 1st post.
 
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Naw its not like that, i dont need help, i was just wanting some other opions of advice on this one.
 
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I don't see a real serious problem...

If you are a DJ as you say, you should know what to do now....
 
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ya im gonna hit her up, i just dont know if it was bad that i didnt get to kiss her on the first date or not??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my view

Not getting a kiss doesn't mean that you done something wrong. I didn't get a kiss on the first date with my ex but we hit it off pretty well after. So I would say that you should make plans with her again. Let us know how it works out!
 
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