"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Im a dj, but i need some help with this one?????

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Ok i need some help from some fellow dj's, i went out on a first date like 3 days ago with this fine ass latina, it went really great, but no kiss, this is one of the first dates i never had the kiss on. But i didnt push it so we just had a nice hug at the end. But we really only spent like 2 hours together so i really didnt have too much time to work more game. But the date went great we seemed to hit it off nicely, so i havent talked to her or called her since, except a txt msg saying that i had a nice time. What do yall think my next move should be, she said she wanted to hang out saturday, so im kinda just waiting my time to call her up. Any advice? I really need this one bad!!!!!!!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your a DJ but you need help? I can see you are a DJ by this being your 1st post.
 
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Naw its not like that, i dont need help, i was just wanting some other opions of advice on this one.
 
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I don't see a real serious problem...

If you are a DJ as you say, you should know what to do now....
 
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ya im gonna hit her up, i just dont know if it was bad that i didnt get to kiss her on the first date or not??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my view

Not getting a kiss doesn't mean that you done something wrong. I didn't get a kiss on the first date with my ex but we hit it off pretty well after. So I would say that you should make plans with her again. Let us know how it works out!
 
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