"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im a dj, but i need some help with this one?????

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Ok i need some help from some fellow dj's, i went out on a first date like 3 days ago with this fine ass latina, it went really great, but no kiss, this is one of the first dates i never had the kiss on. But i didnt push it so we just had a nice hug at the end. But we really only spent like 2 hours together so i really didnt have too much time to work more game. But the date went great we seemed to hit it off nicely, so i havent talked to her or called her since, except a txt msg saying that i had a nice time. What do yall think my next move should be, she said she wanted to hang out saturday, so im kinda just waiting my time to call her up. Any advice? I really need this one bad!!!!!!!

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your a DJ but you need help? I can see you are a DJ by this being your 1st post.
 
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Naw its not like that, i dont need help, i was just wanting some other opions of advice on this one.
 
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I don't see a real serious problem...

If you are a DJ as you say, you should know what to do now....
 
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ya im gonna hit her up, i just dont know if it was bad that i didnt get to kiss her on the first date or not??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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my view

Not getting a kiss doesn't mean that you done something wrong. I didn't get a kiss on the first date with my ex but we hit it off pretty well after. So I would say that you should make plans with her again. Let us know how it works out!
 
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