I just started seeing a new girl. Cool girl, fun to hang out with, etc. only problem is im 21 and about to graduate college and shes 17 and is a senior in high school. can a relationship like that work? she plans on going to college in the city i live in so distance wouldnt be an issue. oh and in case youre wondering, 17 is the legal age in the state i live in haha.
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I'm 21, she's 17. Can it work?
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Sure, it can work. It depends on your chemistry and compatibility. The chances are low, not because of age, just because the chances always are low. I say go for it and have fun with it, but don't try to turn it into anything serious, because she's only 17 and also you're only 21.
Iceberg
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Who cares? Have fun with the girl and just do it.
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HELL NO. i would never be serious with a girl under 20. my limit is at least 23 years old. anything younger i would not take serious. girls that young do not want to commit and even if they do it NEVER lasts. fuk buddy man!!!
who said i was making it about me? i was giving him an opinion on having relationships with a young girl. she's 17 for christ sakes! have some fun with her, don't get serious... she's way too young. it might work, but it won't last. that sh1t is very rare.lili19771 said:
PrettyBoyAJ
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Who cares?
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
I say it depends on what your goals are. It's just too hard to say how mature and committed she'll be. None the less, don't look at it too deep. Just have fun for now. If it lasts long enough and there's enough investment from both parties THEN you can take things more seriously.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The point is, girls at that age have hectic hormones, this is a fact.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.