"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm 21, she's 17. Can it work?

duke104

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I just started seeing a new girl. Cool girl, fun to hang out with, etc. only problem is im 21 and about to graduate college and shes 17 and is a senior in high school. can a relationship like that work? she plans on going to college in the city i live in so distance wouldnt be an issue. oh and in case youre wondering, 17 is the legal age in the state i live in haha.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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crazyboy

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It would honestly probably work as a **** buddy situation. Her immaturity will defintely shine through
 

Chickfight

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Sure, it can work. It depends on your chemistry and compatibility. The chances are low, not because of age, just because the chances always are low. I say go for it and have fun with it, but don't try to turn it into anything serious, because she's only 17 and also you're only 21.
 

Iceberg

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Who cares? Have fun with the girl and just do it.

What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
 

bigneil

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Half your age plus 7. 21 and 17 are ideal. My first true love was 18 and I was 22. It was awesome.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LoneWolf

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HELL NO. i would never be serious with a girl under 20. my limit is at least 23 years old. anything younger i would not take serious. girls that young do not want to commit and even if they do it NEVER lasts. fuk buddy man!!!
 

lili19771

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LoneWolf said:
HELL NO. i would never be serious with a girl under 20. my limit is at least 23 years old. anything younger i would not take serious. girls that young do not want to commit and even if they do it NEVER lasts. fuk buddy man!!!
Thread isn't even about you lol...

As for op: it could work if you think she's mature enough
 

LoneWolf

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lili19771 said:
Thread isn't even about you lol...

As for op: it could work if you think she's mature enough
who said i was making it about me? i was giving him an opinion on having relationships with a young girl. she's 17 for christ sakes! have some fun with her, don't get serious... she's way too young. it might work, but it won't last. that sh1t is very rare.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Who cares?

But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
 

Gam

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I say it depends on what your goals are. It's just too hard to say how mature and committed she'll be. None the less, don't look at it too deep. Just have fun for now. If it lasts long enough and there's enough investment from both parties THEN you can take things more seriously.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cherokee

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The point is, girls at that age have hectic hormones, this is a fact.

What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...

Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.
 
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