I just started seeing a new girl. Cool girl, fun to hang out with, etc. only problem is im 21 and about to graduate college and shes 17 and is a senior in high school. can a relationship like that work? she plans on going to college in the city i live in so distance wouldnt be an issue. oh and in case youre wondering, 17 is the legal age in the state i live in haha.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm 21, she's 17. Can it work?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Sure, it can work. It depends on your chemistry and compatibility. The chances are low, not because of age, just because the chances always are low. I say go for it and have fun with it, but don't try to turn it into anything serious, because she's only 17 and also you're only 21.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Who cares? Have fun with the girl and just do it.
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HELL NO. i would never be serious with a girl under 20. my limit is at least 23 years old. anything younger i would not take serious. girls that young do not want to commit and even if they do it NEVER lasts. fuk buddy man!!!
who said i was making it about me? i was giving him an opinion on having relationships with a young girl. she's 17 for christ sakes! have some fun with her, don't get serious... she's way too young. it might work, but it won't last. that sh1t is very rare.lili19771 said:
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Who cares?
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
I say it depends on what your goals are. It's just too hard to say how mature and committed she'll be. None the less, don't look at it too deep. Just have fun for now. If it lasts long enough and there's enough investment from both parties THEN you can take things more seriously.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The point is, girls at that age have hectic hormones, this is a fact.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.