I just started seeing a new girl. Cool girl, fun to hang out with, etc. only problem is im 21 and about to graduate college and shes 17 and is a senior in high school. can a relationship like that work? she plans on going to college in the city i live in so distance wouldnt be an issue. oh and in case youre wondering, 17 is the legal age in the state i live in haha.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm 21, she's 17. Can it work?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chickfight
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Sure, it can work. It depends on your chemistry and compatibility. The chances are low, not because of age, just because the chances always are low. I say go for it and have fun with it, but don't try to turn it into anything serious, because she's only 17 and also you're only 21.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Who cares? Have fun with the girl and just do it.
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
What's the rush? Your biological clock is ticking?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HELL NO. i would never be serious with a girl under 20. my limit is at least 23 years old. anything younger i would not take serious. girls that young do not want to commit and even if they do it NEVER lasts. fuk buddy man!!!
who said i was making it about me? i was giving him an opinion on having relationships with a young girl. she's 17 for christ sakes! have some fun with her, don't get serious... she's way too young. it might work, but it won't last. that sh1t is very rare.lili19771 said:
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Who cares?
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
But heres a tip. Don't think about getting into a relationship anytime soon.
I say it depends on what your goals are. It's just too hard to say how mature and committed she'll be. None the less, don't look at it too deep. Just have fun for now. If it lasts long enough and there's enough investment from both parties THEN you can take things more seriously.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The point is, girls at that age have hectic hormones, this is a fact.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.
What they like one month will differ the next month, and 90% of 17 year old girls are very fickle...
Have fun, BUT protect your heart. It's far too easy for a man to fall in love.