Ignored by all, lol - need a social circle

[gspshields2]

I need to find a good social circle. The problem is that I don't really have a social circle right now, just individual friends. Any suggestions?

 

[sexysuave]

where do you live? how long have you lived there?

 

[FairShake]

Get with the one at work. Or at the local bars. Or with your individual friends. That's what people do.

 

[JPlaya]

The curse of the cliches. Just be awesome and they'll invite you in to their group.

 

[kentgraham10]

Social circles suck. I am part of a few, one that is terrible for social gatherings, another that is really good for that kind of stuff but we rarely meet. Then there are some others that stay where they are, like the gym group, college group, etc.

 

[PapiChulo]

I had a few and they all sucked in terms of meeting women, plus, other guys were jealous of me and ****-blocking hard, keeping women away from me. There are some that have only average women in them. I realize that one need a circle of cool dudes who associate with attractive women. I would start with finding good mates first, the kind with whom you can go on adventures and that isn't far off from what you are.

 

[thevilittletroll]

find a cool bar or pub close to your house and go there for happy hour every day. you'll become a regular, get to know all the bartenders, then just meet all the other regulars there. after about a week, you'll know who they are.

 

[gspshields2]

there is no social circle at work,
only old people are here, thats the problem,

and the cool kids from highschool are the only ones i know but they arent cool with me

 

[loveshogun]

You're in high school? This explains everything.

Being popular in high school is like winning the prize in a Crackerjack box - you're a big fish in a small pond.

I know this, because I was well-liked in high school. After I learned to stop being a little b*tch about "not having friends," anyway. I translated that to the rest of my life as I continued to grow.

Just focus on schoolwork, your hobbies, and the things you like to do, dude. You're in frickin' high school. What do you expect? Drug-fueled orgies? You won't get those 'til at least college.

 

[gspshields2]

You're in high school? This explains everything.

Being popular in high school is like winning the prize in a Crackerjack box - you're a big fish in a small pond.

I know this, because I was well-liked in high school. After I learned to stop being a little b*tch about "not having friends," anyway. I translated that to the rest of my life as I continued to grow.

Just focus on schoolwork, your hobbies, and the things you like to do, dude. You're in frickin' high school. What do you expect? Drug-fueled orgies? You won't get those 'til at least college.

no im not in highschool, im saying the cool kids i KNEW FROM highschool. they are the only alpha males i know. ive been out of school for some time, im in my mid twenties. im working.

 

[synergy1]

to me, friendships start from common interests. Specifically, I have made my social circles through my hockey, and TAing in college. I maintain several social circles, but stick with the same one from when I graduated college. Its not as easy when you are working full time to get a social group since everyone is married, has kids and is doing their own thing. If i had to start over, I'd probably join some athletic clubs including: hockey, running, biking, and than try to meet women in a few random yoga classes ( those things will kill you). The first one is my passion, and there aren't many women in that, but the others there certainly are.

 

[Hakuna]

Google search for social circles nearby your zip code

 

[gspshields2]

Google search for social circles nearby your zip code

haha very funny

 

[thevilittletroll]

google search co-ed sports clubs in your area. you'll find everything from softball, kickball, tennis, volleyball, soccer, all kinds of stuff. easy to meet single girls and make new guy friends.