"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you think an Ltr cant work or marriage cant work.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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actually LTR or marriage can work very well, but its rare, and the love doesn't last.. people mostly stay together for convenience/attachment reasons.

Humans are programmed to be with the same partner for around 4 years on average..
 
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P.S. I am sure this doesn't apply to you and you and your girlfriend will stay together forever and have many fat children.
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fat kids?

considering neither of us are fat?

is that ur pathetic attempt to put me down...when have I talked to you?


in real life you wouldnt have no nuts to talk to me like this.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
fat kids?

considering neither of us are fat?

is that ur pathetic attempt to put me down...when have I talked to you?


in real life you wouldnt have no nuts to talk to me like this.
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that wasn't meant to be an insult dude, but ok, whatever floats your boat..

have tons of stick skinny anorexic kids if you'd like. that better?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if ur just messing around thats cool.

I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.

pretty sad.

but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....

thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if ur just messing around thats cool.

I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.

pretty sad.

but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....

thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
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did you ever read my first reply?
 
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I agree that he inlove part wont last forever.


maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.

but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I agree that he inlove part wont last forever.


maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.

but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
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so you'd stay loyal and commited and live the rest of your life with a girl even if you are not in love with her anymore?
 
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If I loved her yes..if she made me happy yes.....I will try all I can to make it work.

but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm so looking forward to in a couple of months when you get your ass dumped and come crying back.

I've actually made a new folder in my bookmarks especially for you friv with all of your *brilliant* posts.


bwhahahahahahah
 
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I'm so looking forward to in a couple of months when you get your ass dumped and come crying back.
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haha....

you do realize you live in a fantasy world?


tell me some reasons why you think that is going to happen?

seriously..Id like to know how you see my everyday life and know that im destined for that. :)
 
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oh and BTW your a really SAD man....that you wish for another person to have pain for your benifit
 
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That's why de facto relationships were invented.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
If I loved her yes..if she made me happy yes.....I will try all I can to make it work.

but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
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I guess you just need to experience all this for yourself, dude...

relationships are beautiful but do come with expiration dates. Look at all the miserable men stuck in jobs they hate providing for wives that don't love them anymore and kids that mostly annoy them. Just don't be one of those.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i wont be one of those guys.


but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.

I am labled and afc.

which confuses me..oh well
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
i wont be one of those guys.


but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.

I am labled and afc.

which confuses me..oh well
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im not really labeling you AFC, thats the other dudes on here.. Im labeling you slightly confused and blinded by the chemical reaction you're experiencing.

Dude, enjoy love while it lasts. I was lucky to experience it, many people on here have not. Its a beautiful thing, bro, but don't let it fool you into AFCness, and be realistic about it.

Nothing wrong with using DJ skills to find one love, as long as you dont let the c*nt control you, or stay with her once you are not in love with her anymore....
 
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exactly.


I guess if you say your in love here.....they think you must be her bytch.

my women, respects me and thinks im the most wonderful person on Earth..I am sure thats her love speaking for her.b

if she didnt repsect me.....I wouldnt be with her.

and if she didnt think I was this wonderful she wouldnt be with me.


she knows she was with a man.

I just wish the guys here..understood the diff between being a clingy, needy afc, and being a man in love
 
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