frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
why do most of you want more than a piece of arse???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
if you think an Ltr cant work or marriage cant work.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
actually LTR or marriage can work very well, but its rare, and the love doesn't last.. people mostly stay together for convenience/attachment reasons.
Humans are programmed to be with the same partner for around 4 years on average..
Humans are programmed to be with the same partner for around 4 years on average..
Egoist
Master Don Juan
P.S. I am sure this doesn't apply to you and you and your girlfriend will stay together forever and have many fat children.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
fat kids?
considering neither of us are fat?
is that ur pathetic attempt to put me down...when have I talked to you?
in real life you wouldnt have no nuts to talk to me like this.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
that wasn't meant to be an insult dude, but ok, whatever floats your boat..
have tons of stick skinny anorexic kids if you'd like. that better?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
if ur just messing around thats cool.
I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.
pretty sad.
but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....
thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.
pretty sad.
but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....
thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
Egoist
Master Don Juan
did you ever read my first reply?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree that he inlove part wont last forever.
maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.
but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.
but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
so you'd stay loyal and commited and live the rest of your life with a girl even if you are not in love with her anymore?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
If I loved her yes..if she made me happy yes.....I will try all I can to make it work.
but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm so looking forward to in a couple of months when you get your ass dumped and come crying back.
I've actually made a new folder in my bookmarks especially for you friv with all of your *brilliant* posts.
bwhahahahahahah
I've actually made a new folder in my bookmarks especially for you friv with all of your *brilliant* posts.
bwhahahahahahah
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
haha....
you do realize you live in a fantasy world?
tell me some reasons why you think that is going to happen?
seriously..Id like to know how you see my everyday life and know that im destined for that.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
oh and BTW your a really SAD man....that you wish for another person to have pain for your benifit
diplomatic_lies
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That's why de facto relationships were invented.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
I guess you just need to experience all this for yourself, dude...
relationships are beautiful but do come with expiration dates. Look at all the miserable men stuck in jobs they hate providing for wives that don't love them anymore and kids that mostly annoy them. Just don't be one of those.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
i wont be one of those guys.
but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.
I am labled and afc.
which confuses me..oh well
but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.
I am labled and afc.
which confuses me..oh well
Egoist
Master Don Juan
im not really labeling you AFC, thats the other dudes on here.. Im labeling you slightly confused and blinded by the chemical reaction you're experiencing.
Dude, enjoy love while it lasts. I was lucky to experience it, many people on here have not. Its a beautiful thing, bro, but don't let it fool you into AFCness, and be realistic about it.
Nothing wrong with using DJ skills to find one love, as long as you dont let the c*nt control you, or stay with her once you are not in love with her anymore....
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
exactly.
I guess if you say your in love here.....they think you must be her bytch.
my women, respects me and thinks im the most wonderful person on Earth..I am sure thats her love speaking for her.b
if she didnt repsect me.....I wouldnt be with her.
and if she didnt think I was this wonderful she wouldnt be with me.
she knows she was with a man.
I just wish the guys here..understood the diff between being a clingy, needy afc, and being a man in love
I guess if you say your in love here.....they think you must be her bytch.
my women, respects me and thinks im the most wonderful person on Earth..I am sure thats her love speaking for her.b
if she didnt repsect me.....I wouldnt be with her.
and if she didnt think I was this wonderful she wouldnt be with me.
she knows she was with a man.
I just wish the guys here..understood the diff between being a clingy, needy afc, and being a man in love