frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
why do most of you want more than a piece of arse???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
if you think an Ltr cant work or marriage cant work.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
actually LTR or marriage can work very well, but its rare, and the love doesn't last.. people mostly stay together for convenience/attachment reasons.
Humans are programmed to be with the same partner for around 4 years on average..
Humans are programmed to be with the same partner for around 4 years on average..
Egoist
Master Don Juan
P.S. I am sure this doesn't apply to you and you and your girlfriend will stay together forever and have many fat children.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
fat kids?
considering neither of us are fat?
is that ur pathetic attempt to put me down...when have I talked to you?
in real life you wouldnt have no nuts to talk to me like this.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
that wasn't meant to be an insult dude, but ok, whatever floats your boat..
have tons of stick skinny anorexic kids if you'd like. that better?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
if ur just messing around thats cool.
I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.
pretty sad.
but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....
thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.
pretty sad.
but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....
thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
Egoist
Master Don Juan
did you ever read my first reply?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree that he inlove part wont last forever.
maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.
but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.
but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
so you'd stay loyal and commited and live the rest of your life with a girl even if you are not in love with her anymore?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
If I loved her yes..if she made me happy yes.....I will try all I can to make it work.
but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm so looking forward to in a couple of months when you get your ass dumped and come crying back.
I've actually made a new folder in my bookmarks especially for you friv with all of your *brilliant* posts.
bwhahahahahahah
I've actually made a new folder in my bookmarks especially for you friv with all of your *brilliant* posts.
bwhahahahahahah
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
haha....
you do realize you live in a fantasy world?
tell me some reasons why you think that is going to happen?
seriously..Id like to know how you see my everyday life and know that im destined for that.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
oh and BTW your a really SAD man....that you wish for another person to have pain for your benifit
diplomatic_lies
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That's why de facto relationships were invented.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
I guess you just need to experience all this for yourself, dude...
relationships are beautiful but do come with expiration dates. Look at all the miserable men stuck in jobs they hate providing for wives that don't love them anymore and kids that mostly annoy them. Just don't be one of those.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
i wont be one of those guys.
but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.
I am labled and afc.
which confuses me..oh well
but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.
I am labled and afc.
which confuses me..oh well
Egoist
Master Don Juan
im not really labeling you AFC, thats the other dudes on here.. Im labeling you slightly confused and blinded by the chemical reaction you're experiencing.
Dude, enjoy love while it lasts. I was lucky to experience it, many people on here have not. Its a beautiful thing, bro, but don't let it fool you into AFCness, and be realistic about it.
Nothing wrong with using DJ skills to find one love, as long as you dont let the c*nt control you, or stay with her once you are not in love with her anymore....
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
exactly.
I guess if you say your in love here.....they think you must be her bytch.
my women, respects me and thinks im the most wonderful person on Earth..I am sure thats her love speaking for her.b
if she didnt repsect me.....I wouldnt be with her.
and if she didnt think I was this wonderful she wouldnt be with me.
she knows she was with a man.
I just wish the guys here..understood the diff between being a clingy, needy afc, and being a man in love
I guess if you say your in love here.....they think you must be her bytch.
my women, respects me and thinks im the most wonderful person on Earth..I am sure thats her love speaking for her.b
if she didnt repsect me.....I wouldnt be with her.
and if she didnt think I was this wonderful she wouldnt be with me.
she knows she was with a man.
I just wish the guys here..understood the diff between being a clingy, needy afc, and being a man in love