frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
why do most of you want more than a piece of arse???
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
P.S. I am sure this doesn't apply to you and you and your girlfriend will stay together forever and have many fat children.
:crackup:Originally posted by frivolousz21
fat kids?
considering neither of us are fat?
is that ur pathetic attempt to put me down...when have I talked to you?
in real life you wouldnt have no nuts to talk to me like this.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
did you ever read my first reply?Originally posted by frivolousz21
if ur just messing around thats cool.
I take most things to offense here..because most people here try to boost there egos off of me.
pretty sad.
but I am serious on the question....why cant people accept some women are great..and make great partners....
thats why 98 peercent of guys are here...to get good with women..so they can keep a ltr when they are ready
so you'd stay loyal and commited and live the rest of your life with a girl even if you are not in love with her anymore?Originally posted by frivolousz21
I agree that he inlove part wont last forever.
maybe bits and pieces of it will arrise here and there.
but thats why loyalty and commitment become so important.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm so looking forward to in a couple of months when you get your ass dumped and come crying back.
I guess you just need to experience all this for yourself, dude...Originally posted by frivolousz21
If I loved her yes..if she made me happy yes.....I will try all I can to make it work.
but I doubt everyday I will feel the same deep connection I feel now..because of time, repsonsibilities, kids...but im sure at times we would spark that fire that burns now
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
im not really labeling you AFC, thats the other dudes on here.. Im labeling you slightly confused and blinded by the chemical reaction you're experiencing.Originally posted by frivolousz21
i wont be one of those guys.
but if I tell you Egoist...that I am in love and care deeply for her.
I am labled and afc.
which confuses me..oh well