"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?

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Not sure if this goes here, but if you guys ever had sons when you grew up, would you teach them PU? I probably would. I mean, with all the feminization society teaches, there's almost no doubt that I would teach them PU and also about the whole DJ lifestyle. When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques, although I wouldn't actually pull the trigger since I'd already be married. That way, my sons wouldn't have to go through the whole stage of being afraid of girls through Middle School and High School and they would be successful with woman throughout that time. But yeah, if I ever had sons, I'd teach them PU. I want to know what you guys think, basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i wouldn't have to. They would learn naturally from years of observation their daddy.

Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
 

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Hell yeah I'd teach my boy(s) PU. I'd also teach my girl(s) about PU and SS, just so she/they wouldn't get screwed (and screwed over) by guys like us... at least not as easily. Of course, I'd also have a shotgun and a shovel and a large back yard, just in case it fails.
 

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just don't teach them what YOUR idea of PU is and they will be fine, u loser
 

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exactly. In fact.. don't eveno pen your monuth.. just write down the name to this website.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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somebody needs to teach Elstud some basic social skills first before these kinda ideas even pop into his head
 

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Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
 

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Picking up girls is lame. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, my sons will have girls picking THEM up.
 

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Its still important too teach your boys about girls and how it all works. Granted they will learn alot through watching their father, I dont quiet think thats enough.

I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.

To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
 

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ElStud said:
Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.

damn elstud, grow some nutts. if you can't handle this guy, how you gonna handle a woman when she gets under your skin? that's how it's clear as day the lack of progress you are making

Ignore feature.. use it. love it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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damn, you are just as bad.

we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.

give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
 

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I wouldn't teach em pick-up. I'd teach them the ways of a female mind though.
 

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True I guess, but I wouldn't teach routines or anything of the sort.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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