"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?

ElStud

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Not sure if this goes here, but if you guys ever had sons when you grew up, would you teach them PU? I probably would. I mean, with all the feminization society teaches, there's almost no doubt that I would teach them PU and also about the whole DJ lifestyle. When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques, although I wouldn't actually pull the trigger since I'd already be married. That way, my sons wouldn't have to go through the whole stage of being afraid of girls through Middle School and High School and they would be successful with woman throughout that time. But yeah, if I ever had sons, I'd teach them PU. I want to know what you guys think, basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i wouldn't have to. They would learn naturally from years of observation their daddy.

Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
 

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Hell yeah I'd teach my boy(s) PU. I'd also teach my girl(s) about PU and SS, just so she/they wouldn't get screwed (and screwed over) by guys like us... at least not as easily. Of course, I'd also have a shotgun and a shovel and a large back yard, just in case it fails.
 

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just don't teach them what YOUR idea of PU is and they will be fine, u loser
 

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exactly. In fact.. don't eveno pen your monuth.. just write down the name to this website.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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somebody needs to teach Elstud some basic social skills first before these kinda ideas even pop into his head
 

ElStud

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Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
 

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Picking up girls is lame. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, my sons will have girls picking THEM up.
 

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Its still important too teach your boys about girls and how it all works. Granted they will learn alot through watching their father, I dont quiet think thats enough.

I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.

To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
 

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ElStud said:
Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.

damn elstud, grow some nutts. if you can't handle this guy, how you gonna handle a woman when she gets under your skin? that's how it's clear as day the lack of progress you are making

Ignore feature.. use it. love it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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damn, you are just as bad.

we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.

give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
 

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I wouldn't teach em pick-up. I'd teach them the ways of a female mind though.
 

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True I guess, but I wouldn't teach routines or anything of the sort.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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