"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?

ElStud

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Not sure if this goes here, but if you guys ever had sons when you grew up, would you teach them PU? I probably would. I mean, with all the feminization society teaches, there's almost no doubt that I would teach them PU and also about the whole DJ lifestyle. When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques, although I wouldn't actually pull the trigger since I'd already be married. That way, my sons wouldn't have to go through the whole stage of being afraid of girls through Middle School and High School and they would be successful with woman throughout that time. But yeah, if I ever had sons, I'd teach them PU. I want to know what you guys think, basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i wouldn't have to. They would learn naturally from years of observation their daddy.

Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
 

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Hell yeah I'd teach my boy(s) PU. I'd also teach my girl(s) about PU and SS, just so she/they wouldn't get screwed (and screwed over) by guys like us... at least not as easily. Of course, I'd also have a shotgun and a shovel and a large back yard, just in case it fails.
 

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just don't teach them what YOUR idea of PU is and they will be fine, u loser
 

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exactly. In fact.. don't eveno pen your monuth.. just write down the name to this website.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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somebody needs to teach Elstud some basic social skills first before these kinda ideas even pop into his head
 

ElStud

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Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
 

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Picking up girls is lame. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, my sons will have girls picking THEM up.
 

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Its still important too teach your boys about girls and how it all works. Granted they will learn alot through watching their father, I dont quiet think thats enough.

I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.

To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
 

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ElStud said:
Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.

damn elstud, grow some nutts. if you can't handle this guy, how you gonna handle a woman when she gets under your skin? that's how it's clear as day the lack of progress you are making

Ignore feature.. use it. love it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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damn, you are just as bad.

we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.

give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
 

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I wouldn't teach em pick-up. I'd teach them the ways of a female mind though.
 

Bvbidd

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True I guess, but I wouldn't teach routines or anything of the sort.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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