Not sure if this goes here, but if you guys ever had sons when you grew up, would you teach them PU? I probably would. I mean, with all the feminization society teaches, there's almost no doubt that I would teach them PU and also about the whole DJ lifestyle. When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques, although I wouldn't actually pull the trigger since I'd already be married. That way, my sons wouldn't have to go through the whole stage of being afraid of girls through Middle School and High School and they would be successful with woman throughout that time. But yeah, if I ever had sons, I'd teach them PU. I want to know what you guys think, basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i wouldn't have to. They would learn naturally from years of observation their daddy.
Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
Fred Da Head
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Hell yeah I'd teach my boy(s) PU. I'd also teach my girl(s) about PU and SS, just so she/they wouldn't get screwed (and screwed over) by guys like us... at least not as easily. Of course, I'd also have a shotgun and a shovel and a large back yard, just in case it fails.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
exactly. In fact.. don't eveno pen your monuth.. just write down the name to this website.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
D!ck Ramsey
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Picking up girls is lame. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, my sons will have girls picking THEM up.
Its still important too teach your boys about girls and how it all works. Granted they will learn alot through watching their father, I dont quiet think thats enough.
I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.
To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.
To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
ElStud said:Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.
damn elstud, grow some nutts. if you can't handle this guy, how you gonna handle a woman when she gets under your skin? that's how it's clear as day the lack of progress you are making
Ignore feature.. use it. love it
ok then
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131876&page=4
post #64, i gave elstud some great advice and feedback, and while he keeps replying negatively to everything else, he hasn't even looked at my advice for him, and im calling his ass out on it
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131876&page=4
post #64, i gave elstud some great advice and feedback, and while he keeps replying negatively to everything else, he hasn't even looked at my advice for him, and im calling his ass out on it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
damn, you are just as bad.
we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.
give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.
give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.