"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?

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Not sure if this goes here, but if you guys ever had sons when you grew up, would you teach them PU? I probably would. I mean, with all the feminization society teaches, there's almost no doubt that I would teach them PU and also about the whole DJ lifestyle. When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques, although I wouldn't actually pull the trigger since I'd already be married. That way, my sons wouldn't have to go through the whole stage of being afraid of girls through Middle School and High School and they would be successful with woman throughout that time. But yeah, if I ever had sons, I'd teach them PU. I want to know what you guys think, basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i wouldn't have to. They would learn naturally from years of observation their daddy.

Just like I honestly think I had a natural leg up on most because my dad is a natural PUA. alot of the stuff I "learned here" isn't crap I learned, it was just coming out fo someone elses mouth than my dad's.
 

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Hell yeah I'd teach my boy(s) PU. I'd also teach my girl(s) about PU and SS, just so she/they wouldn't get screwed (and screwed over) by guys like us... at least not as easily. Of course, I'd also have a shotgun and a shovel and a large back yard, just in case it fails.
 

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just don't teach them what YOUR idea of PU is and they will be fine, u loser
 

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exactly. In fact.. don't eveno pen your monuth.. just write down the name to this website.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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somebody needs to teach Elstud some basic social skills first before these kinda ideas even pop into his head
 

ElStud

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Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
 

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Picking up girls is lame. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, my sons will have girls picking THEM up.
 

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Its still important too teach your boys about girls and how it all works. Granted they will learn alot through watching their father, I dont quiet think thats enough.

I think one of the most important things to teach them is to be free of social brainwashing, to see the world how really is and not what we are lead to believe through our society. Building strong beliefs from a very early age is top priority IMO.

To be honest, I cant wait to teach my boy the things I finally now know (That my old man didnt tell me).
 

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ElStud said:
Someone ban this guy, I'm sick of him taking over perfectly good threads.

damn elstud, grow some nutts. if you can't handle this guy, how you gonna handle a woman when she gets under your skin? that's how it's clear as day the lack of progress you are making

Ignore feature.. use it. love it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn, you are just as bad.

we are here to get ass, not bicker between fellow members over who took my advice adn who didn't.

give it a break, and both of you go to your corners!!!
 

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I wouldn't teach em pick-up. I'd teach them the ways of a female mind though.
 

Bvbidd

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True I guess, but I wouldn't teach routines or anything of the sort.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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