"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you don't have a HB8+ then you are not a DJ
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WTF?
You're turning this into a physical science, and you're talking men's and women's hearts and that strange and mysterious quality called attraction.
I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10. It's about your choice and your ability to act on your desires. And just cause a girl is an HB2 doesn't mean she is super attainable. An HB2 chick with a good sense of self-worth and confidence (yes, it's possible) won't be had an easier than an HB10 who is plagued with self-doubt.
This kind of thinking belongs in the High School forum! :cheer:
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Words to live by.SELF-MASTERY
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I know it's about what HE wants and I know the scale is subjective. My question is if a true dj should get the HB8 that HE wants. If he settles for an HB2 that's fine, but don't tell me he wouldn't rather have a girl with a similar personality that looks like an HB8.insidious said: