"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you don't have a HB8+ then you are not a DJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WTF?
You're turning this into a physical science, and you're talking men's and women's hearts and that strange and mysterious quality called attraction.
I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10. It's about your choice and your ability to act on your desires. And just cause a girl is an HB2 doesn't mean she is super attainable. An HB2 chick with a good sense of self-worth and confidence (yes, it's possible) won't be had an easier than an HB10 who is plagued with self-doubt.
This kind of thinking belongs in the High School forum! :cheer:
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Words to live by.SELF-MASTERY
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know it's about what HE wants and I know the scale is subjective. My question is if a true dj should get the HB8 that HE wants. If he settles for an HB2 that's fine, but don't tell me he wouldn't rather have a girl with a similar personality that looks like an HB8.insidious said: