Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
If you don't have a HB8+ then you are not a DJ
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WTF?
You're turning this into a physical science, and you're talking men's and women's hearts and that strange and mysterious quality called attraction.
I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10. It's about your choice and your ability to act on your desires. And just cause a girl is an HB2 doesn't mean she is super attainable. An HB2 chick with a good sense of self-worth and confidence (yes, it's possible) won't be had an easier than an HB10 who is plagued with self-doubt.
This kind of thinking belongs in the High School forum! :cheer:
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Words to live by.SELF-MASTERY
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know it's about what HE wants and I know the scale is subjective. My question is if a true dj should get the HB8 that HE wants. If he settles for an HB2 that's fine, but don't tell me he wouldn't rather have a girl with a similar personality that looks like an HB8.insidious said: