"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you don't have a HB8+ then you are not a DJ

If you are a DJ, then the girl has to be hot and have a good personality too. HB8+


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By HB8+, I don't mean looks averaged with personality, I mean BOTH an 8+ in looks and an 8+ in personality. A top quality find. If you are a real DJ, shouldn't you be able to get a quality hot girl?

Discuss.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IsiMan84

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Being a DJ is not just about "getting hot girls." It's about getting your own shít straight and doing what's right for yourself. Then the girls will follow. And even then, the rating system is so subjective and everybody has their own tastes. Your HB8 could be another guy's UG4. If you get a girl and you are happy with yourself and your life then that is what matters.
 

insidious

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C'mon guy. HB8???
WTF?
You're turning this into a physical science, and you're talking men's and women's hearts and that strange and mysterious quality called attraction.

I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10. It's about your choice and your ability to act on your desires. And just cause a girl is an HB2 doesn't mean she is super attainable. An HB2 chick with a good sense of self-worth and confidence (yes, it's possible) won't be had an easier than an HB10 who is plagued with self-doubt.

This kind of thinking belongs in the High School forum! :cheer:
 

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insidious said:
I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10. It's about your choice and your ability to act on your desires.
:up: Words to live by.
 

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grow up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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insidious said:
C'mon guy. HB8???
I think the true mark of a DJ is a man who gets a women HE wants, whether she be HB2 or HB10.
I know it's about what HE wants and I know the scale is subjective. My question is if a true dj should get the HB8 that HE wants. If he settles for an HB2 that's fine, but don't tell me he wouldn't rather have a girl with a similar personality that looks like an HB8.
 

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And the question of subjectivity still applies. If she's an HB8 in his eyes, then who is going to change that?
 
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