"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If You Aren't Good Looking...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
alnite
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It sort of odd but there are plenty of hot girls that will date just average looking men;it happens more than you think and that is why.
If youre not good looking, AND not intelligent, AND not ambitious, AND smell terrible, AND have a drug problem, then theres probably a .08% chance you will get a 9 or 10. And she'll definitely have genital warts.
Ryan, you are bragging about your girl. I'm glad you think shes attractive. Show us and we'll judge.
ALso, basing your worth on the women you can score says to me that you are very self concious about how you appear to others.
i wish i was... now show us both your pics so we can flame you.Originally posted by RyanZ
You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
ask yourself this. how often have you seen 9/10 out in the street holding hands with an average looking guy?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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And youre not that good looking bro. Youre theory is out the window.
I think you came here just to brag about grabbin this girl who is more attractive than all the other girls you used to date.
Good job though.
I bet thats not even him, ahha hate to be him... he looks soooooooo uncomfortable in that suit, you look liek your shaking.
ANd as for your gf.. hairstyle looks like something from the 80's.
You coulda picked an attractive guy to lie with bro.
Oh yeah. Post YOUR picture, and YOUR girlfriend.
rofl.
Thought so. Later losers.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
rgeere
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
that girl is definitely not a 10. sure if you mix it with personality then maybe. but in terms of just looks she appears to be a 7.
post a better res pic, then maybe we'll all take back what we said...
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if no-one pays any attention to this princess he will disapear.
And RyanZ
I think you need to learn how to stand up straight in photos instead of leaning into the girl your obsessing over. You will creep her out if you keep up that behaviour old mate.
And if you think your friend is a 10, you need to re-calibrate your scale buddie as i think your judging a bit rich.
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rgeere
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This is not about us, this is about you; which also leaves the rest of us to wait for a mod to log on and do something about this useless crap.Originally posted by RyanZ
Hey, still waiting for everyone else's pic, and their G/F's. Come on tough guys.
rofl
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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