"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
alnite
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rgeere
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It sort of odd but there are plenty of hot girls that will date just average looking men;it happens more than you think and that is why.
If youre not good looking, AND not intelligent, AND not ambitious, AND smell terrible, AND have a drug problem, then theres probably a .08% chance you will get a 9 or 10. And she'll definitely have genital warts.
Ryan, you are bragging about your girl. I'm glad you think shes attractive. Show us and we'll judge.
ALso, basing your worth on the women you can score says to me that you are very self concious about how you appear to others.
i wish i was... now show us both your pics so we can flame you.Originally posted by RyanZ
You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
ask yourself this. how often have you seen 9/10 out in the street holding hands with an average looking guy?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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And youre not that good looking bro. Youre theory is out the window.
I think you came here just to brag about grabbin this girl who is more attractive than all the other girls you used to date.
Good job though.
I bet thats not even him, ahha hate to be him... he looks soooooooo uncomfortable in that suit, you look liek your shaking.
ANd as for your gf.. hairstyle looks like something from the 80's.
You coulda picked an attractive guy to lie with bro.
Oh yeah. Post YOUR picture, and YOUR girlfriend.
rofl.
Thought so. Later losers.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
rgeere
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
that girl is definitely not a 10. sure if you mix it with personality then maybe. but in terms of just looks she appears to be a 7.
post a better res pic, then maybe we'll all take back what we said...
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And RyanZ
I think you need to learn how to stand up straight in photos instead of leaning into the girl your obsessing over. You will creep her out if you keep up that behaviour old mate.
And if you think your friend is a 10, you need to re-calibrate your scale buddie as i think your judging a bit rich.
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rgeere
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This is not about us, this is about you; which also leaves the rest of us to wait for a mod to log on and do something about this useless crap.Originally posted by RyanZ
Hey, still waiting for everyone else's pic, and their G/F's. Come on tough guys.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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