"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If You Aren't Good Looking...

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RyanZ

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You're not gonna get those 9 and 10s.

That's just something you're gonna have to accept.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Okay, maybe 1 out of 50 guys who aren't good looking can get those girls.
 

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point taken.

but seriously, i've seen tons of average looking guys pull 8/9/10 for gf's countless times in the street.

it's all about confidence, and apparently the average guy taht bags her has it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is totally idiotic .. I'm average looking and have had the attention of some of the hottest girls at my school. The secret is to just accept that they are just girls and have strengths and flaws like everyone else, then you will realize that these girls arn't really all that and you can do stuff with them.

It sort of odd but there are plenty of hot girls that will date just average looking men;it happens more than you think and that is why.
 

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You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
 

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You should add a little more to your statement there Ryan:

If youre not good looking, AND not intelligent, AND not ambitious, AND smell terrible, AND have a drug problem, then theres probably a .08% chance you will get a 9 or 10. And she'll definitely have genital warts.


Ryan, you are bragging about your girl. I'm glad you think shes attractive. Show us and we'll judge.

ALso, basing your worth on the women you can score says to me that you are very self concious about how you appear to others.
 

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Originally posted by RyanZ
You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
i wish i was... now show us both your pics so we can flame you.

ask yourself this. how often have you seen 9/10 out in the street holding hands with an average looking guy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dated a girl that looked just like that.
And youre not that good looking bro. Youre theory is out the window.
I think you came here just to brag about grabbin this girl who is more attractive than all the other girls you used to date.


Good job though.
 

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Can a moderator please ban this guy?

I bet thats not even him, ahha hate to be him... he looks soooooooo uncomfortable in that suit, you look liek your shaking.

ANd as for your gf.. hairstyle looks like something from the 80's.

You coulda picked an attractive guy to lie with bro.
 

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This guy is a troll; he has posted two pictures of himself already and they both look totally diffrent. I was under the impression that he was hispanic from the first picture he posted, but here it is a totally diffrent guy and he is not hispanic.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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man, the first thing came up in my mind when that pic showed up was "werewolf man" hhaha

that girl is definitely not a 10. sure if you mix it with personality then maybe. but in terms of just looks she appears to be a 7.

post a better res pic, then maybe we'll all take back what we said...
 

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Hey, still waiting for everyone else's pic, and their G/F's. Come on tough guys.

rofl
 

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It’s simple when this guys posts about how good looking he is, instead of telling us when insecurities he’s hiding.

DON’T REPLY TO THE THREAD

if no-one pays any attention to this princess he will disapear.

And RyanZ

I think you need to learn how to stand up straight in photos instead of leaning into the girl your obsessing over. You will creep her out if you keep up that behaviour old mate.

And if you think your friend is a 10, you need to re-calibrate your scale buddie as i think your judging a bit rich.
 

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from a woman's viewpoint, Ryan is definitely good looking. but let me ask you this ryan. when you come on an internet forum and boost about your looks, what do you think people are going to say? idiot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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