"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If You Aren't Good Looking...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
alnite
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rgeere
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It sort of odd but there are plenty of hot girls that will date just average looking men;it happens more than you think and that is why.
If youre not good looking, AND not intelligent, AND not ambitious, AND smell terrible, AND have a drug problem, then theres probably a .08% chance you will get a 9 or 10. And she'll definitely have genital warts.
Ryan, you are bragging about your girl. I'm glad you think shes attractive. Show us and we'll judge.
ALso, basing your worth on the women you can score says to me that you are very self concious about how you appear to others.
i wish i was... now show us both your pics so we can flame you.Originally posted by RyanZ
You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
ask yourself this. how often have you seen 9/10 out in the street holding hands with an average looking guy?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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And youre not that good looking bro. Youre theory is out the window.
I think you came here just to brag about grabbin this girl who is more attractive than all the other girls you used to date.
Good job though.
I bet thats not even him, ahha hate to be him... he looks soooooooo uncomfortable in that suit, you look liek your shaking.
ANd as for your gf.. hairstyle looks like something from the 80's.
You coulda picked an attractive guy to lie with bro.
Oh yeah. Post YOUR picture, and YOUR girlfriend.
rofl.
Thought so. Later losers.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
rgeere
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
that girl is definitely not a 10. sure if you mix it with personality then maybe. but in terms of just looks she appears to be a 7.
post a better res pic, then maybe we'll all take back what we said...
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if no-one pays any attention to this princess he will disapear.
And RyanZ
I think you need to learn how to stand up straight in photos instead of leaning into the girl your obsessing over. You will creep her out if you keep up that behaviour old mate.
And if you think your friend is a 10, you need to re-calibrate your scale buddie as i think your judging a bit rich.
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rgeere
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This is not about us, this is about you; which also leaves the rest of us to wait for a mod to log on and do something about this useless crap.Originally posted by RyanZ
Hey, still waiting for everyone else's pic, and their G/F's. Come on tough guys.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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