Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
If You Aren't Good Looking...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
alnite
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
rgeere
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It sort of odd but there are plenty of hot girls that will date just average looking men;it happens more than you think and that is why.
If youre not good looking, AND not intelligent, AND not ambitious, AND smell terrible, AND have a drug problem, then theres probably a .08% chance you will get a 9 or 10. And she'll definitely have genital warts.
Ryan, you are bragging about your girl. I'm glad you think shes attractive. Show us and we'll judge.
ALso, basing your worth on the women you can score says to me that you are very self concious about how you appear to others.
i wish i was... now show us both your pics so we can flame you.Originally posted by RyanZ
You're a crack smoker ScrewIt. I'm extremely good looking and that's probably the only reason I'm with my g/f who is a 10.
ask yourself this. how often have you seen 9/10 out in the street holding hands with an average looking guy?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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And youre not that good looking bro. Youre theory is out the window.
I think you came here just to brag about grabbin this girl who is more attractive than all the other girls you used to date.
Good job though.
I bet thats not even him, ahha hate to be him... he looks soooooooo uncomfortable in that suit, you look liek your shaking.
ANd as for your gf.. hairstyle looks like something from the 80's.
You coulda picked an attractive guy to lie with bro.
Oh yeah. Post YOUR picture, and YOUR girlfriend.
rofl.
Thought so. Later losers.
http://home.stoik.com/uploaded/P1010148.jpg
rgeere
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
that girl is definitely not a 10. sure if you mix it with personality then maybe. but in terms of just looks she appears to be a 7.
post a better res pic, then maybe we'll all take back what we said...
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if no-one pays any attention to this princess he will disapear.
And RyanZ
I think you need to learn how to stand up straight in photos instead of leaning into the girl your obsessing over. You will creep her out if you keep up that behaviour old mate.
And if you think your friend is a 10, you need to re-calibrate your scale buddie as i think your judging a bit rich.
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rgeere
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This is not about us, this is about you; which also leaves the rest of us to wait for a mod to log on and do something about this useless crap.Originally posted by RyanZ
Hey, still waiting for everyone else's pic, and their G/F's. Come on tough guys.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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