"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If only she knew
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
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shouldbefun
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I assume that the girl drove the man to suicide because he wanted to get laid but he got a rejection. Not her problem, his problem. He couldnt believe it and didnt want to change his views. So he failed, I feel sad, because he didn’t fight back. He should have not lost hope. Never, ever, ever be a quitter if you want to change the world!
RickTheToad
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Seems so, but it also seems illogical to do something so extreme.
GrowingPains
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Such is life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
note, this girl was pretty and was known for leading people on, even this lesbian chick was heartbroken by her xd
her fb status posted an old pic of them together and she said "I wish he would've talked to me about how he felt"
when she was the one purposely manipulating his emotions.
i banged this chick a few times and even I caught feelings for her, we'd talk all night and she tell me things about her childhood, fvcking creepy, stories about her dad locking her in a basement for days, being haunted by ghosts, she was overly religious.
didn't know it then that girl was actually a killer in sheep's clothing
fvcking some girls a scrary man
RickTheToad
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Most wars were started due to love for women and conquring. Doesn't surprise me a bit. It's prob. why I'm very numb to them now. We've all had battle scars and had to lick our wounds. Sad state of affairs the genders are in. No pun intended or implied.