"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If only she knew
- Thread starter sosousage
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RickTheToad
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shouldbefun
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I assume that the girl drove the man to suicide because he wanted to get laid but he got a rejection. Not her problem, his problem. He couldnt believe it and didnt want to change his views. So he failed, I feel sad, because he didn’t fight back. He should have not lost hope. Never, ever, ever be a quitter if you want to change the world!
RickTheToad
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Seems so, but it also seems illogical to do something so extreme.
GrowingPains
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Such is life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
note, this girl was pretty and was known for leading people on, even this lesbian chick was heartbroken by her xd
her fb status posted an old pic of them together and she said "I wish he would've talked to me about how he felt"
when she was the one purposely manipulating his emotions.
i banged this chick a few times and even I caught feelings for her, we'd talk all night and she tell me things about her childhood, fvcking creepy, stories about her dad locking her in a basement for days, being haunted by ghosts, she was overly religious.
didn't know it then that girl was actually a killer in sheep's clothing
fvcking some girls a scrary man
RickTheToad
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Most wars were started due to love for women and conquring. Doesn't surprise me a bit. It's prob. why I'm very numb to them now. We've all had battle scars and had to lick our wounds. Sad state of affairs the genders are in. No pun intended or implied.