“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If One Of Her Friends Adds You On Myspace

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience. :)
 

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cky said:
Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience. :)
Before I opine on this...

cky, I absolutely love you're signature!

It's officially one of my new favorite quotes of all time! :D

Mad props bro! :up:
 

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Thanks, OTB. Feel free to use it. :)
 

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Hahaha, no doubt! :D

I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OTB said:
Hahaha, no doubt! :D

I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Link slash add?
 

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
cheers guys...but back to my question please
Sorry about that bro! :p


Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you..... ;)

(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace... :up:)
 

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OTB said:
Sorry about that bro! :p


Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you..... ;)

(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace... :up:)
cheers haha. dont get distracted next time :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just out of curiosity, what is your username suppose to mean?


Care to enlighten me... ;)
haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol

nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha

i know realise how other people see it though lol
 

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if her friends start adding you on facebook it means that they are probably talking about you, and she's probably saying good things
 

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol

nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha

i know realise how other people see it though lol
And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha :p


The album's by who???.......
 

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And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha :p


The album's by who???.......

Gojira.

French Progressive Death Metal Band
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Pretty fookin' good? Is that it? :p
Yep, that's it brother! :p

Not really my style - I'm more into the Epic/Symphonic side of Metal ;)


TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
nice to see some power metal fans getting into the ladies.
Is that automatically implying that Power Metal fans aren't usually into "the ladies"? :crackup:


TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
What do they say about your tastes?

I've managed to get an indie girl onto The Black Dahlia Murder before haha XD
Well, the girls that I usually go after don't think much of my tastes...

Come to think of it, they aren't into metal at all (unless it's some of that Nu-Metal garbage out there :cuss:

The girls I'm with are usually into all that R&B / Chris Browm bullsh!t :down:
But that's probably cause I usually just go after the preepy sluts :D

The couple of girls in my school that are actually into Power/Symphonic Metal are just plain wierd & anti-social - And no, their looks don't make up for it :crackup:
 

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And what exactly is the Black Dahlia Murder?

Isn't it part of that new "deathcore" sh!t out there? :confused:
its mingled in with the scene which is unfortunate. they can be slightly classified as deathcore but i'd say they have more of a thrashy tinge about them with a wee bit of melodic death metal.
 
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