TheWayOfAllFlesh
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It's a good thing right?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Before I opine on this...cky said:Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Link slash add?OTB said:Hahaha, no doubt!
I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Sorry about that bro!TheWayOfAllFlesh said:cheers guys...but back to my question please
cheers haha. dont get distracted next timeOTB said:Sorry about that bro!![]()
Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you.....
(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace...)
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
haha nice mate i never saw it that way lolOTB said:Just out of curiosity, what is your username suppose to mean?
Care to enlighten me...![]()
And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahahaTheWayOfAllFlesh said:haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol
nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha
i know realise how other people see it though lol
OTB said:And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha
The album's by who???.......
Is this it?TheWayOfAllFlesh said:Gojira.
French Progressive Death Metal Band
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pretty fookin' good? Is that it?OTB said:Is this it?
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=4552860
Sounds pretty fvckin' good -----> especially their use of vocoders
Although, I'm usually only into Power Metal![]()
Yep, that's it brother!TheWayOfAllFlesh said:Pretty fookin' good? Is that it?![]()
Is that automatically implying that Power Metal fans aren't usually into "the ladies"? :crackup:TheWayOfAllFlesh said:nice to see some power metal fans getting into the ladies.
Well, the girls that I usually go after don't think much of my tastes...TheWayOfAllFlesh said:What do they say about your tastes?
I've managed to get an indie girl onto The Black Dahlia Murder before haha XD
its mingled in with the scene which is unfortunate. they can be slightly classified as deathcore but i'd say they have more of a thrashy tinge about them with a wee bit of melodic death metal.OTB said:And what exactly is the Black Dahlia Murder?
Isn't it part of that new "deathcore" sh!t out there?![]()