TheWayOfAllFlesh
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It's a good thing right?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Before I opine on this...cky said:Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Link slash add?OTB said:Hahaha, no doubt!
I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Sorry about that bro!TheWayOfAllFlesh said:cheers guys...but back to my question please
cheers haha. dont get distracted next timeOTB said:Sorry about that bro!![]()
Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you.....
(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace...)
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
haha nice mate i never saw it that way lolOTB said:Just out of curiosity, what is your username suppose to mean?
Care to enlighten me...![]()
And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahahaTheWayOfAllFlesh said:haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol
nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha
i know realise how other people see it though lol
OTB said:And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha
The album's by who???.......
Is this it?TheWayOfAllFlesh said:Gojira.
French Progressive Death Metal Band
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pretty fookin' good? Is that it?OTB said:Is this it?
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=4552860
Sounds pretty fvckin' good -----> especially their use of vocoders
Although, I'm usually only into Power Metal![]()
Yep, that's it brother!TheWayOfAllFlesh said:Pretty fookin' good? Is that it?![]()
Is that automatically implying that Power Metal fans aren't usually into "the ladies"? :crackup:TheWayOfAllFlesh said:nice to see some power metal fans getting into the ladies.
Well, the girls that I usually go after don't think much of my tastes...TheWayOfAllFlesh said:What do they say about your tastes?
I've managed to get an indie girl onto The Black Dahlia Murder before haha XD
its mingled in with the scene which is unfortunate. they can be slightly classified as deathcore but i'd say they have more of a thrashy tinge about them with a wee bit of melodic death metal.OTB said:And what exactly is the Black Dahlia Murder?
Isn't it part of that new "deathcore" sh!t out there?![]()