"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If One Of Her Friends Adds You On Myspace

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience. :)
 
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Absolutely. You can even use her friend to get to her as long as she doesn't know. Or if she likes you, but you happen to move into the friend zone, you can use her in a way she knows as long as you're sure she won't tell. Girls make the best wingmen if you can trust them, speaking from my own experience. :)
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Before I opine on this...

cky, I absolutely love you're signature!

It's officially one of my new favorite quotes of all time! :D

Mad props bro! :up:
 
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Thanks, OTB. Feel free to use it. :)
 
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Hahaha, no doubt! :D

I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OTB said:
Hahaha, no doubt! :D

I'm actually gonna put it up under my "favorite quotes" section on my Facebook page :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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Link slash add?
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
cheers guys...but back to my question please
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Sorry about that bro! :p


Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you..... ;)

(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace... :up:)
 
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OTB said:
Sorry about that bro! :p


Back to your question....
Looking at it from the simple perspective that the fact that her best friend or "biffel" added you shows that you have instilled such a high level of interest in your girl of choice, that she couldn't help herself to NOT tell her friends about you..... ;)

(But keep in mind not to over-analyze a girl's behavior over Myspace... :up:)
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cheers haha. dont get distracted next time :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just out of curiosity, what is your username suppose to mean?


Care to enlighten me... ;)
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haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol

nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha

i know realise how other people see it though lol
 
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if her friends start adding you on facebook it means that they are probably talking about you, and she's probably saying good things
 
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haha nice mate i never saw it that way lol

nothing major though. simply the name of the last album i downloaded haha

i know realise how other people see it though lol
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And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha :p


The album's by who???.......
 
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And which album may that be? ------> I can already guess the title of it, hahaha :p


The album's by who???.......
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Gojira.

French Progressive Death Metal Band
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Pretty fookin' good? Is that it? :p
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Yep, that's it brother! :p

Not really my style - I'm more into the Epic/Symphonic side of Metal ;)


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nice to see some power metal fans getting into the ladies.
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Is that automatically implying that Power Metal fans aren't usually into "the ladies"? :crackup:


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What do they say about your tastes?

I've managed to get an indie girl onto The Black Dahlia Murder before haha XD
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Well, the girls that I usually go after don't think much of my tastes...

Come to think of it, they aren't into metal at all (unless it's some of that Nu-Metal garbage out there :cuss:

The girls I'm with are usually into all that R&B / Chris Browm bullsh!t :down:
But that's probably cause I usually just go after the preepy sluts :D

The couple of girls in my school that are actually into Power/Symphonic Metal are just plain wierd & anti-social - And no, their looks don't make up for it :crackup:
 
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And what exactly is the Black Dahlia Murder?

Isn't it part of that new "deathcore" sh!t out there? :confused:
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its mingled in with the scene which is unfortunate. they can be slightly classified as deathcore but i'd say they have more of a thrashy tinge about them with a wee bit of melodic death metal.
 
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