I'd like to know if anyone has any success with messaging girls by slut-shaming. Like on Facebook, if men message girls a "hey you're pretty" women likely won't respond back, even when you're in the same city? So what about if you accused her of sleeping with many men and shaming that, like with her profile pics. Maybe that works if you posed as a woman.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If more women sunbathed in their backyards in bikinis, would there be less slut-shamers in the world?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Do you want a heavily hypergamous daughter?
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Found the Gen-X Boomer. Parents can be disowned as well...
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That’s correct.
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I’ll want her to be with a husband that suits her and the family as a whole.
There’s not a thing I don’t know about the boomers and how they ruined the sexual market for younger generations. So “Gen X Boomer” doesn’t apply to me.
If she were to be hypergamous and it worked out—that is, she acquired a man above our socioeconomic status—so be it. Hypergamy doesn’t backfire on all women. Case in point, I have a family member who was ruthlessly hypergamous, turned down many men because of their statuses, and she wound up with a 6’2” rich husband and they have two kids.
Btw, I don’t do insult matches online or e-beef. So if “Gen X Boomer” was a dig at me and if other digs follow, I’ll stop conversing. Too bad considering I liked some of your posts.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anyways, this thread immediately turned into a slut-shaming thread. I guess that's typical as to what bullies do. But unfortunately, this thread is about women exposing a lot of skin. And I didn't want to be a taboo that a women who shows a lot of skin, equates to sleeping with a lot of guys. But I guess I can just tweak a related question to even though men want to slut-shame women, should men slut-shame women, if it's another form of bullying?
Also, when I used the word slutty, I don't mean women that sleep with a lot of guys, I meant women who show a lot of skin. I wonder if there's even a word for that, and so, slut-shaming women as in women revealing a lot, not sleeping with a lot of guys. As what this thread is originally intended to be.
O yea and check this out.
Since most men are slut-shamers.
Then, all a woman has to do, is walk out in bikinis or whatever. Whatever thirsty guy approaches her, all she has to do is "why are you hitting on me, are you single or something?" And then she can reply "I'm a slut, I slept with a lot of guys before."
Since most men are slut-shamers.
Then, all a woman has to do, is walk out in bikinis or whatever. Whatever thirsty guy approaches her, all she has to do is "why are you hitting on me, are you single or something?" And then she can reply "I'm a slut, I slept with a lot of guys before."
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.