"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If more women sunbathed in their backyards in bikinis, would there be less slut-shamers in the world?

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I'd like to know if anyone has any success with messaging girls by slut-shaming. Like on Facebook, if men message girls a "hey you're pretty" women likely won't respond back, even when you're in the same city? So what about if you accused her of sleeping with many men and shaming that, like with her profile pics. Maybe that works if you posed as a woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I suppose. Though I’m not going to show approval for that which I don’t. Neither is my wife.

But any daughter has a choice for unacceptable behavior. Parents have choices too. To wit, if a daughter chooses to be a sl-t and parents disapprove, they can cut ties with her after she turns eighteen years old. Same goes for sons with unacceptable behavior.
Found the Gen-X Boomer. Parents can be disowned as well...
 

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Do you want a heavily hypergamous daughter?
I’ll want her to be with a husband that suits her and the family as a whole.

There’s not a thing I don’t know about the boomers and how they ruined the sexual market for younger generations. So “Gen X Boomer” doesn’t apply to me.

If she were to be hypergamous and it worked out—that is, she acquired a man above our socioeconomic status—so be it. Hypergamy doesn’t backfire on all women. Case in point, I have a family member who was ruthlessly hypergamous, turned down many men because of their statuses, and she wound up with a 6’2” rich husband and they have two kids.

Btw, I don’t do insult matches online or e-beef. So if “Gen X Boomer” was a dig at me and if other digs follow, I’ll stop conversing. Too bad considering I liked some of your posts.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyways, this thread immediately turned into a slut-shaming thread. I guess that's typical as to what bullies do. But unfortunately, this thread is about women exposing a lot of skin. And I didn't want to be a taboo that a women who shows a lot of skin, equates to sleeping with a lot of guys. But I guess I can just tweak a related question to even though men want to slut-shame women, should men slut-shame women, if it's another form of bullying?
 

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Also, when I used the word slutty, I don't mean women that sleep with a lot of guys, I meant women who show a lot of skin. I wonder if there's even a word for that, and so, slut-shaming women as in women revealing a lot, not sleeping with a lot of guys. As what this thread is originally intended to be.
 

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O yea and check this out.

Since most men are slut-shamers.

Then, all a woman has to do, is walk out in bikinis or whatever. Whatever thirsty guy approaches her, all she has to do is "why are you hitting on me, are you single or something?" And then she can reply "I'm a slut, I slept with a lot of guys before."
 

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If I were BBQing outside, and this were sunbathing next door, I'd lose my appetite. :eek: :eek: :eek:

kate mulvey in bikini.jpg
 
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Weird, I thought posting pics aren't allowed, and it's not deleted yet, maybe it only applies to a woman you are talking about?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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