"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If more women sunbathed in their backyards in bikinis, would there be less slut-shamers in the world?

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I'd like to know if anyone has any success with messaging girls by slut-shaming. Like on Facebook, if men message girls a "hey you're pretty" women likely won't respond back, even when you're in the same city? So what about if you accused her of sleeping with many men and shaming that, like with her profile pics. Maybe that works if you posed as a woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I suppose. Though I’m not going to show approval for that which I don’t. Neither is my wife.

But any daughter has a choice for unacceptable behavior. Parents have choices too. To wit, if a daughter chooses to be a sl-t and parents disapprove, they can cut ties with her after she turns eighteen years old. Same goes for sons with unacceptable behavior.
Found the Gen-X Boomer. Parents can be disowned as well...
 

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Do you want a heavily hypergamous daughter?
I’ll want her to be with a husband that suits her and the family as a whole.

There’s not a thing I don’t know about the boomers and how they ruined the sexual market for younger generations. So “Gen X Boomer” doesn’t apply to me.

If she were to be hypergamous and it worked out—that is, she acquired a man above our socioeconomic status—so be it. Hypergamy doesn’t backfire on all women. Case in point, I have a family member who was ruthlessly hypergamous, turned down many men because of their statuses, and she wound up with a 6’2” rich husband and they have two kids.

Btw, I don’t do insult matches online or e-beef. So if “Gen X Boomer” was a dig at me and if other digs follow, I’ll stop conversing. Too bad considering I liked some of your posts.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyways, this thread immediately turned into a slut-shaming thread. I guess that's typical as to what bullies do. But unfortunately, this thread is about women exposing a lot of skin. And I didn't want to be a taboo that a women who shows a lot of skin, equates to sleeping with a lot of guys. But I guess I can just tweak a related question to even though men want to slut-shame women, should men slut-shame women, if it's another form of bullying?
 

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Also, when I used the word slutty, I don't mean women that sleep with a lot of guys, I meant women who show a lot of skin. I wonder if there's even a word for that, and so, slut-shaming women as in women revealing a lot, not sleeping with a lot of guys. As what this thread is originally intended to be.
 

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O yea and check this out.

Since most men are slut-shamers.

Then, all a woman has to do, is walk out in bikinis or whatever. Whatever thirsty guy approaches her, all she has to do is "why are you hitting on me, are you single or something?" And then she can reply "I'm a slut, I slept with a lot of guys before."
 

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If I were BBQing outside, and this were sunbathing next door, I'd lose my appetite. :eek: :eek: :eek:

kate mulvey in bikini.jpg
 
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Weird, I thought posting pics aren't allowed, and it's not deleted yet, maybe it only applies to a woman you are talking about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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