"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If more women sunbathed in their backyards in bikinis, would there be less slut-shamers in the world?

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I'd like to know if anyone has any success with messaging girls by slut-shaming. Like on Facebook, if men message girls a "hey you're pretty" women likely won't respond back, even when you're in the same city? So what about if you accused her of sleeping with many men and shaming that, like with her profile pics. Maybe that works if you posed as a woman.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I suppose. Though I’m not going to show approval for that which I don’t. Neither is my wife.

But any daughter has a choice for unacceptable behavior. Parents have choices too. To wit, if a daughter chooses to be a sl-t and parents disapprove, they can cut ties with her after she turns eighteen years old. Same goes for sons with unacceptable behavior.
Found the Gen-X Boomer. Parents can be disowned as well...
 

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Do you want a heavily hypergamous daughter?
I’ll want her to be with a husband that suits her and the family as a whole.

There’s not a thing I don’t know about the boomers and how they ruined the sexual market for younger generations. So “Gen X Boomer” doesn’t apply to me.

If she were to be hypergamous and it worked out—that is, she acquired a man above our socioeconomic status—so be it. Hypergamy doesn’t backfire on all women. Case in point, I have a family member who was ruthlessly hypergamous, turned down many men because of their statuses, and she wound up with a 6’2” rich husband and they have two kids.

Btw, I don’t do insult matches online or e-beef. So if “Gen X Boomer” was a dig at me and if other digs follow, I’ll stop conversing. Too bad considering I liked some of your posts.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyways, this thread immediately turned into a slut-shaming thread. I guess that's typical as to what bullies do. But unfortunately, this thread is about women exposing a lot of skin. And I didn't want to be a taboo that a women who shows a lot of skin, equates to sleeping with a lot of guys. But I guess I can just tweak a related question to even though men want to slut-shame women, should men slut-shame women, if it's another form of bullying?
 

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Also, when I used the word slutty, I don't mean women that sleep with a lot of guys, I meant women who show a lot of skin. I wonder if there's even a word for that, and so, slut-shaming women as in women revealing a lot, not sleeping with a lot of guys. As what this thread is originally intended to be.
 

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O yea and check this out.

Since most men are slut-shamers.

Then, all a woman has to do, is walk out in bikinis or whatever. Whatever thirsty guy approaches her, all she has to do is "why are you hitting on me, are you single or something?" And then she can reply "I'm a slut, I slept with a lot of guys before."
 

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If I were BBQing outside, and this were sunbathing next door, I'd lose my appetite. :eek: :eek: :eek:

kate mulvey in bikini.jpg
 
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Weird, I thought posting pics aren't allowed, and it's not deleted yet, maybe it only applies to a woman you are talking about?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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