Bonafide
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tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If girls playfully...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:
SilverSonnet
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I've done it before, she laughed cutely 
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
lol... nerd, next...
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Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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DonGorgon said:
The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
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Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:
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And tappin' 'dat azz would be a bad thing because?????
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LOL.
If your interested, yes, touch her back.
If it's done VERY playfully, then do it right back.
If it's done somehow as casually, like her pretending to comment on your jeans, then be a little smoother about it, but return the kino.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.