Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
DonGorgon said:if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.
Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:lol... nerd, next...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonGorgon said:Yes a straight nerd would also tough her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????
Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
Or you work together.DonGorgon said:if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.
LOL.Or you work together.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.