Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
DonGorgon said:if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.
Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:lol... nerd, next...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DonGorgon said:Yes a straight nerd would also tough her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????
Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
Or you work together.DonGorgon said:if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.
LOL.Or you work together.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.