Bonafide
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tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
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If girls playfully...
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if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:
SilverSonnet
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I've done it before, she laughed cutely 
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
lol... nerd, next...
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Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
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Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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And tappin' 'dat azz would be a bad thing because?????
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LOL.
If your interested, yes, touch her back.
If it's done VERY playfully, then do it right back.
If it's done somehow as casually, like her pretending to comment on your jeans, then be a little smoother about it, but return the kino.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.