Bonafide
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tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If girls playfully...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:
SilverSonnet
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I've done it before, she laughed cutely 
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
lol... nerd, next...
DonGorgon
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Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
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Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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And tappin' 'dat azz would be a bad thing because?????
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LOL.
If your interested, yes, touch her back.
If it's done VERY playfully, then do it right back.
If it's done somehow as casually, like her pretending to comment on your jeans, then be a little smoother about it, but return the kino.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.