Bonafide
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tap your ass do you think it would be okay to playfull tap there ass back? lol or would that seem different because ur a male?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If girls playfully...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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if she touches you ... YOu touch her... unless you are gay.Bonafide said:
SilverSonnet
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I've done it before, she laughed cutely 
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
So, IMO, it's cool. And every bit of kino helps
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
lol... nerd, next...
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Yes a straight nerd would also touch her if she touched him... what would you do, oh confused one??????Bonafide said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bonafide
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DonGorgon said:
The thing is im not an animal... I was raised by preppy parents...my whole family is preppy Im not used to just tapping a girl on the ass in public... IN a CLASSROOM better yet.
I mean if I tap those girls asses back you would hear it throughout the whole scchool lol... im dead serious I dont play... :crackup: might offend em...
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Ok but just make sure that you feel them up good next time they touch you inappropriately .Bonafide said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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And tappin' 'dat azz would be a bad thing because?????
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LOL.
If your interested, yes, touch her back.
If it's done VERY playfully, then do it right back.
If it's done somehow as casually, like her pretending to comment on your jeans, then be a little smoother about it, but return the kino.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.