thedude4242
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if she has told you that you are good looking and smell good, but no real sexual talk or moves have been made does they a guarantee that making a move will be accpeted.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
if a girl says your good looking?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thedude4242
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oh you answered the easy question. why cannot no give me any info on my more tough questions.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Alex DeLarge
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Yes!
PapiChulo
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Nothing is wrong with his questions. Disregard what she says, look at the actions. it can easily be anything such as attention wh*ring, or compliment fishing, and most likely is.
thevilittletroll
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its always better to make a move and fail, then to not make a move at all. even if you make your move and she objects, at least she knows you're not a p.ussy which actually increases your value. if you never make a move she will eventually lose any attraction she had for you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a girl tells me I smell good, I lean in to smell her neck making slight contact, then back away with a weird look on my face and say something like "oh.. thank you."
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
Mike32ct
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It's a good sign, but there are no guarantees in this game. Make a move, and see what happens.thedude4242 said:
At the end of the day, there is only ONE valid IOI in this game:
She asks you to put your sausage inside her.
Until that point, you never really know. It's a cr@pshoot.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thedude4242
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ok guys. just seeing what your response is. thank you for the good ones.
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Read this again FTW!!!Mike32ct said:
Case closed.
Given the OP's original question, it might be a good idea to clarify that she might use different wording. For example, "put your anaconda inside me", "insert the balded-headed beauty at once", or "I crave your salami" are all valid IOIs.Mike32ct said: