"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if a girl says your good looking?

thedude4242

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if she has told you that you are good looking and smell good, but no real sexual talk or moves have been made does they a guarantee that making a move will be accpeted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tiguere

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where is your father? im asking because it looks like you need a good kick in the @ss
 

thedude4242

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oh you answered the easy question. why cannot no give me any info on my more tough questions.
 

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If she says you're good looking that means she's gay.....punch her in her teeth for good measure, she's probably disrespecting you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes!
 

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Nothing is wrong with his questions. Disregard what she says, look at the actions. it can easily be anything such as attention wh*ring, or compliment fishing, and most likely is.
 

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its always better to make a move and fail, then to not make a move at all. even if you make your move and she objects, at least she knows you're not a p.ussy which actually increases your value. if you never make a move she will eventually lose any attraction she had for you.
 

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Make a move, even if she says you're not that cute and smell like shart.... what have you got to lose?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Black Dog said:
If she says you're good looking that means she's gay.....punch her in her teeth for good measure, she's probably disrespecting you

rofld
 

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When a girl tells me I smell good, I lean in to smell her neck making slight contact, then back away with a weird look on my face and say something like "oh.. thank you."

It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.

She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
 

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Girls tell i'm good looking on the reg, BUT, it doesn't really make anything easier in terms of the overall game.
 

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thedude4242 said:
if she has told you that you are good looking and smell good, but no real sexual talk or moves have been made does they a guarantee that making a move will be accpeted.
It's a good sign, but there are no guarantees in this game. Make a move, and see what happens.

At the end of the day, there is only ONE valid IOI in this game:

She asks you to put your sausage inside her.

Until that point, you never really know. It's a cr@pshoot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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as long as u dont sexually assault her, a move is always welcomed
 

thedude4242

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ok guys. just seeing what your response is. thank you for the good ones.
 

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Mike32ct said:
It's a good sign, but there are no guarantees in this game. Make a move, and see what happens.

At the end of the day, there is only ONE valid IOI in this game:

She asks you to put your sausage inside her.

Until that point, you never really know. It's a cr@pshoot.
Read this again FTW!!!

Case closed.
 

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Mike32ct said:
There is only ONE valid IOI in this game:

She asks you to put your sausage inside her.
Given the OP's original question, it might be a good idea to clarify that she might use different wording. For example, "put your anaconda inside me", "insert the balded-headed beauty at once", or "I crave your salami" are all valid IOIs.
 
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