thedude4242
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if she has told you that you are good looking and smell good, but no real sexual talk or moves have been made does they a guarantee that making a move will be accpeted.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if a girl says your good looking?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thedude4242
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oh you answered the easy question. why cannot no give me any info on my more tough questions.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Alex DeLarge
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Yes!
PapiChulo
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Nothing is wrong with his questions. Disregard what she says, look at the actions. it can easily be anything such as attention wh*ring, or compliment fishing, and most likely is.
thevilittletroll
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its always better to make a move and fail, then to not make a move at all. even if you make your move and she objects, at least she knows you're not a p.ussy which actually increases your value. if you never make a move she will eventually lose any attraction she had for you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a girl tells me I smell good, I lean in to smell her neck making slight contact, then back away with a weird look on my face and say something like "oh.. thank you."
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
Mike32ct
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It's a good sign, but there are no guarantees in this game. Make a move, and see what happens.thedude4242 said:
At the end of the day, there is only ONE valid IOI in this game:
She asks you to put your sausage inside her.
Until that point, you never really know. It's a cr@pshoot.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thedude4242
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ok guys. just seeing what your response is. thank you for the good ones.
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Read this again FTW!!!Mike32ct said:
Case closed.
Given the OP's original question, it might be a good idea to clarify that she might use different wording. For example, "put your anaconda inside me", "insert the balded-headed beauty at once", or "I crave your salami" are all valid IOIs.Mike32ct said: