thedude4242
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if she has told you that you are good looking and smell good, but no real sexual talk or moves have been made does they a guarantee that making a move will be accpeted.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if a girl says your good looking?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thedude4242
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oh you answered the easy question. why cannot no give me any info on my more tough questions.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Alex DeLarge
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Yes!
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Nothing is wrong with his questions. Disregard what she says, look at the actions. it can easily be anything such as attention wh*ring, or compliment fishing, and most likely is.
thevilittletroll
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its always better to make a move and fail, then to not make a move at all. even if you make your move and she objects, at least she knows you're not a p.ussy which actually increases your value. if you never make a move she will eventually lose any attraction she had for you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a girl tells me I smell good, I lean in to smell her neck making slight contact, then back away with a weird look on my face and say something like "oh.. thank you."
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
It usually gets them to act all offended with a nice smile and hit you, leaving open some perfect opportunities to make a move, verbally and physically.
She wouldn't even attempt to smell you if she didn't actually find you somewhat attractive, so I doubt she would react negatively to doing this. And if she does, then you have your answer.
Mike32ct
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It's a good sign, but there are no guarantees in this game. Make a move, and see what happens.thedude4242 said:
At the end of the day, there is only ONE valid IOI in this game:
She asks you to put your sausage inside her.
Until that point, you never really know. It's a cr@pshoot.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thedude4242
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ok guys. just seeing what your response is. thank you for the good ones.
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Read this again FTW!!!Mike32ct said:
Case closed.
Given the OP's original question, it might be a good idea to clarify that she might use different wording. For example, "put your anaconda inside me", "insert the balded-headed beauty at once", or "I crave your salami" are all valid IOIs.Mike32ct said: