If a girl is hooking up with me on friday and saturday nights,

[Ringleader41]

Am i her top plate pretty much

 

[Fatal Jay]

yes if you are with her on party nights which is Friday and sat, then you are her top plate

if you don't hear from her on those nights or ever on those nights then your not

 

[Big Nuts]

Hopefully by Saturday nite you're knee deep in her va-j-j!

 

[Ringleader41]

Shes one of those girls that take it slow. She told me she wants to get to know me more. Shes been more sexual with me though. How i handle this?

 

[Ringleader41]

Well, it depends. You could still be the safe, dependable guy while she chases after the bad boy that will only give her Wednesday night lol.

U trolln brah

 

[Ringleader41]

Lol not all girls are just total slut bags. Im not saying your wrong but you shouldnt have such a negative perception. Theres much more to wats between us. I understand though, if I felt like I was being played I would know. I am kind of skeptical though

 

[zekko]

Lol not all girls are just total slut bags. Im not saying your wrong but you shouldnt have such a negative perception. Theres much more to wats between us. I understand though, if I felt like I was being played I would know. I am kind of skeptical though

Well, you were the one who asked if you were the top plate.
PairPlusRoyalFlush just gave a possible alternate scenario, he didn't say that was definitely what was going on.

 

[Ringleader41]

Well, you were the one who asked if you were the top plate.
PairPlusRoyalFlush just gave a possible alternate scenario, he didn't say that was definitely what was going on.

Ya hes trying to make me feel like shvt lol. Yall are too negative

 

[muscleman]

Just cause she's not a slvt with you, doesn't mean she's not a slvt with someone else. I rarely tap girls on Friday/Saturday, I'm either out or out working. I save weekdays for philandering.

 

[casaanova]

Says the guy with red k :crackup: No, its from experience. She likes you better than she likes girls night out, thats all you know for sure. I know ive been in a situation where I was Friday, Saturday, vacations, whatever, but there was this Cop that worked nightshift that she was banging on the side and to be honest the unatainable guy that gets sex for free with no bs is the top plate, period. If the girl is spinning plates at all(i.e. banging or making out with multiple guys) you're never in good shape.

I second this. If you think girls with that mentality are "total slut bags" you're in for a rough ride, because most do. That's just the way it is

Shes one of those girls that take it slow. She told me she wants to get to know me more.

Female game, hook line and sinker. Enjoy it while it lasts

 

[lamobatsman]

I second this. If you think girls with that mentality are "total slut bags" you're in for a rough ride, because most do. That's just the way it is


Female game, hook line and sinker. Enjoy it while it lasts

what do u mean byt this? is th OP getting played then?

and i love the comment just cos shes not a slut to you doesnt mean shes not a slut to everyone else

 

[Big Nuts]

Ring: Is she a virgin???? Then you may bide your time...if not, I want you to visualize another man's c*ck in her mouth. I want you to visualize her bent over on an ottoman getting hammered doggie.

Now I want you to visualize yourself empty handed saying: "that coulda been me".

 

[casaanova]

what do u mean byt this? is th OP getting played then?

and i love the comment just cos shes not a slut to you doesnt mean shes not a slut to everyone else

Nah I wouldn't say he's getting "played", since all fb relationships inevitably end anyway, but if she's saying she wants to take it slow, she's campaigning for a relationship and if that doesn't happen she's gonna cut it off sooner than normal - it won't last as long as it would if they were on the same page

 

[Ringleader41]

Well first im in college, so my scenario is quite different than yalls. Second, im not going to go around and think shes fvcking other guys on the side because thats just cynical and detrimental to my game. If she was a slut than yes id aknowledge that, but she isnt. Im not saying this out of a wk perpestive either. The more I hook up with her, the more slvtier she gets. Yall
Are going for the wrong girls if you think you must play so many games to get a girl.

 

[Big Nuts]

^Is that what passes for college grammar in 2013?

Hieroglyphics inside an Egyptian pyramid makes more sense!

Don't write her love letters.

 

[Big Nuts]

yalls? wtf?

 

[Ringleader41]

I dont type well on an iphone, and english is not my major phvcker. Also im kind of drunkkko

 

[JohnChops]

I dont type well on an iphone, and english is not my major phvcker.

I hope your major has nothing to do with English, math or science. You type and think like a chimpanzee. She's spinning plates, you're chasing her, end of story. Now go troll elsewhere.

 

[Ringleader41]

I hope your major has nothing to do with English, math or science. You type and think like a chimpanzee. She's spinning plates, you're chasing her, end of story. Now go troll elsewhere.

Finance phaggot

 

[floydb25]

Shes one of those girls that take it slow. She told me she wants to get to know me more. Shes been more sexual with me though. How i handle this?

Not liking this part. IME, that always translated to low interest, seeking other options, keeping you as a back-up / doormat, etc. Pay close attention to her interest in you. If she acts too friendly, says she's not ready, confused / unsure, not looking for a relationship, LJBF, etc, and doesn't act sexual or show romantic interest - get out. Watch her actions throughout all of this. Especially how she reacts to kissing, dating, close physical contact, etc. And if she's eager to see you, thinking about you, contacting you, etc.

There's a difference between taking it slow and not having much interest - with little reciprocation or initiation on their part. They shouldn't be holding back THAT much, or sending mixed signals. This means you're getting used or played. Remember that people aren't usually direct or honest in their intentions. It's up to you to find what's up.

Girls with high interest aren't not ready or wanting to take it slow; getting to know you first. They just go with the flow, and get to know you AS they're dating you. It happens naturally, and isn't something they usually can control. Passion is passion; it just happens. They don't "say" anything - usually out of fear that you'll lose interest. Following this advice and playing accordingly will almost guarantee a FZ slot. She SHOULD be excited, eager, cant wait to see you again, talking about sex and everything else that occurs during the infatuation bubble. You'll know when you're #1... you won't have to ask. You will be her focus, and there will be a strong emphasis on you and her.

There is no such thing as being confused / afraid about / of one's feelings, either. Either they're attracted or not. Usually they have NO feelings, and are confused about that, if anything.... Especially if they liked you a lot initially.

A girl who has little interest, or loses interest (even if once very high) will want to take it slow, claim to be not ready, blah blah.

But these excuses are almost always used in conjunction with them seeking other options. At least IME.... There was always LI, and someone they liked more, or were already pursuing, or broken up with, or whatever.

It's good to not be negative or pessimistic or jaded, but don't be naive or gullible or oblivious to reality. Don't assume ANYTHING - good or bad. Don't tell yourself she's not like that, is genuine in her intentions, and start acting like an NG dumbass - only to crash and burn. Pay attention to her actions, behaviors, and IL. This isn't the time to start worrying and analyzing everything - lest you start acting insecure, needy, etc, and push her away.