"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If a girl calls you perfect.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In fact, many women would rather have a relationship with or are attracted to flawed men since it is in their motherly nature to care for or fix problematic men. It seems counter untuitive, but it is true. Look at all the jerks, thugs, criminals, etc. and all other flawed types who are surrounded by hot girls and you will see my point.
AllAmericanGuy
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Calypzo
Don Juan
3 months later, it ended. so much for that
dap
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mrRuckus said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.
Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.
1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.
NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
lookyoung said:
Amen.
I have been told many things by women, including how great I am, how special, how perfect, blah blah blah, but when it came to the bottom line, they always seem to have excuses not to date, have sex, etc. They will say whatever you want to hear for whatever purpose they have in mind. Only when there is congruency between what they say and what they do (action) does a girls word have meaning or significance.
So, by her telling you that you are perfect, tell her to back it up with action, i,e sex.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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This is the perfect opportunity to piss your pants. Than you won't be perfect anymore, therefore she won't hold back her animal sexual urges to rape your penis.crossboss said:
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"I'm an AFC" - lookyounglookyoung said:
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
SWEET hahaha. Thats definitely a good line:rockon:THE_ADDMAN said:lol this happened recently.
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
now keep in mind, normally when a girl says that, its her way of saying "Lets just be friends"... not so in this case
I sleep with her on a regular basis. the only reason she said that is cuz her and I arent dating. she actually has a bf already