“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a girl calls you perfect.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not necessarily. A girl calling you perfect or even too good for her can be a kiss of death. It is almost akin to LJBF in the proper context. I have been in situations where a girl gave me what seemed the ultimate compliment only to find out that she was not interested in me at all.

In fact, many women would rather have a relationship with or are attracted to flawed men since it is in their motherly nature to care for or fix problematic men. It seems counter untuitive, but it is true. Look at all the jerks, thugs, criminals, etc. and all other flawed types who are surrounded by hot girls and you will see my point.
 

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my first girlfriend said this to me shortly after we got together.. we were together a little over a year and we had sex regurarly.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tell her that you finally have something that you both agree on
 

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mrRuckus said:
What a girl says means almost nothing.

Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
 

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lookyoung said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words

Amen.

I have been told many things by women, including how great I am, how special, how perfect, blah blah blah, but when it came to the bottom line, they always seem to have excuses not to date, have sex, etc. They will say whatever you want to hear for whatever purpose they have in mind. Only when there is congruency between what they say and what they do (action) does a girls word have meaning or significance.

So, by her telling you that you are perfect, tell her to back it up with action, i,e sex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB: "your perfect"
your c0cky+funny response: "I know"
 

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lookyoung said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
"I'm an AFC" - lookyoung
 

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lol this happened recently.

one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

I've never seen her laugh so hard before. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

Into the quote file with you.

I'm gonna find a way to say something like that someday.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
lol this happened recently.

one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

I've never seen her laugh so hard before. :)
SWEET hahaha. Thats definitely a good line:rockon:
 

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thanks guys :)

now keep in mind, normally when a girl says that, its her way of saying "Lets just be friends"... not so in this case

I sleep with her on a regular basis. the only reason she said that is cuz her and I arent dating. she actually has a bf already :p
 
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